Minka
DeYoung grew up in circumstances that were simultaneously difficult
and safe. Working alongside her parents and being unable to attend
high school, Minka is innocent and shy. On a picnic one summer day in
1928, Minka slips away for a walk in the woods with another girl,
only to be sexually assaulted by a stranger. Understandably confused
and hurt, she later realizes that she is also pregnant. Sent away to
hide the pregnancy and give the baby up for adoption, Minka falls in
love with her beautiful baby girl, Betty Jane. Realizing that giving
her to another family is for the best, Minka sacrifices her own
desires and leaves the child for its adoptive parents. Almost eighty
years later, she utters a prayer asking to see her daughter, but
never expects that it will happen. Such a prayer seems impossible,
but Minka's story exemplifies the truth that with God, nothing is
impossible. Read more in The Waiting
by Cathy LaGrow.
At
times, The Waiting
was difficult to read and I found myself on the verge of tears. It's
not light, fluffy entertainment, but a remarkable true story that has
the potential to change hearts with its themes of perseverance, faith
and love.
The
author expertly brings the reader into Minka's experience with vivid
narration, intriguing historical detail and a heart-wrenching plot.
Some details of the rape are given, but only the necessities that
help the reader to understand the story. While it is unpleasant to
read about and probably not appropriate for younger readers, it is
not overly graphic. I enjoyed how much history was integrated within
the story. Not just big events like wars and economic upheaval, but
lesser known things like the doctor following the standard procedure
of the day in dosing Minka with ether when she came to the pushing
stage of childbirth.
The
cover of The Waiting is
stunning and the photos inside contribute positively to the reader's
experience. To see Minka and Ruth (Betty Jane) together after reading
their story is such a poignant image.
Readers
who are looking for an inspirational, true story of perseverance and
faith will enjoy The Waiting.
This book is a keeper for me. It's not something I'll want to read
again in three months, but I'm sure I'll read it again in the future.
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