Showing posts with label Boundaries. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Boundaries. Show all posts

Friday, March 4, 2022

February 2022 Reads & March 2022 TBR

My February 2022 Reads:
  1. Boundaries: When to Say Yes, When to Say No to Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud and John Townsend - ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  2. Bradenton by Merab-Michal Favorite - ⭐⭐⭐⭐ 

  3. Becoming Elisabeth Elliot by Ellen Vaugh - ⭐⭐⭐⭐ 

  4. The Girl Who Could Breathe Under Water by Erin Bartels - ⭐⭐⭐⭐ - Read my review. 

  5. The Samurai's Honor by Walt Mussell - ⭐⭐⭐⭐- Read my review.

  6. In Search of a Prince by Toni Shiloh. - ⭐⭐⭐1/2 - Review to come.



Expected March 2022 Reads:
  1. Times of Perseverance: Hope and Healing on the Battlefields of Life by Gregg L. Grossman.

  2. Drawn by the Current by Jocelyn Green.

  3. Until Leaves Fall in Paris by Sarah Sundin - My local book club's selection for March.

  4. The Samurai's Heart by Walt Mussell.

  5. I'll Start Again Monday by Lysa Terkeurst.



What will you read this month?

Sunday, January 2, 2022

December 2021 Reads and January 2022 TBR

My December 2021 Reads:

I read considerably more than I expected to in December. Hooray!
  1. Cinders Like Glass by Clarissa Kae - ⭐⭐⭐⭐ 1/2 - Read my review.

  2. Never Leave Me by Jody Hedlund - ⭐⭐⭐⭐ 1/2 - Read my review..

  3. The Debutante's Code by Erica Vetsch - ⭐⭐⭐⭐ - Read my review. 

  4. A Second Chance by Walt Mussell. - ⭐⭐⭐⭐ - Read my review.

  5. The Wish Book Christmas by Lynn Austin. - ⭐⭐⭐⭐- Read my review.

  6. Sunrise by Susan May Warren - ⭐⭐⭐1/2 - Review to come 1/04/22.



Expected January 2022 Reads:


2022 is starting off strong in the Christian Fiction realm with some favorite authors releasing books this month and next. I'm so excited about my upcoming reads!!!
  1. Boundaries: When to Say Yes, When to Say No to Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud and John Townsend - Currently rereading this amazing book. I've found it so helpful every time I've read it.

  2. Elinor by Shannon McNear.

  3. Stone by Ronie Kendig.

  4. Roots of Wood and Stone by Amanda Wen. - Recently nominated for a Christy award!

  5. The Ice Swan by J'nell Ciesielski - My local book club's selection for January.

  6. A Heart Adrift by Laura Frantz - Currently reading!

  7. The Girl Who Could Breathe Under Water by Erin Bartels

  8. The Lady's Mine by Francine Rivers. - My favorite author of all time. I've got the ebook on my kindle, but I'm trying to hold out until the physical copy arrives!



What will you read this month?

Tuesday, August 20, 2019

Book Review: Protecting Your Child From Predators

About the Book:

Keeping a Child Safe Requires More Awareness Than Ever.

Even aware parents often underestimate the dangers their children face. Research indicates that 1 in 4 females and 1 in 6 males are sexually abused before age 18. In most cases, the enemy is not a faceless stranger, it's someone you know and trust--a neighbor, a coach, or even a family member. 

This book provides practical steps to ensure you're doing all you can to reduce the risks of abuse. But since you cannot be with your children 24/7, the authors teach you how to help your child develop awareness and strategies in the face of potential dangers--without making them fearful. 

Dr. Robinson, whose decades-long practice focuses on abused and endangered children, calls on her own case studies to show age-appropriate conversation starters for parents, teaching them how to ask the right questions and provide the right boundaries.

This book will help you move from fear to confidence on this critical topic that is just too important to ignore.


Learn more abour the book and read an excerpt from Protecting your Child from Predators: How to Recognize and Respond to Sexual Danger on the publisher's website.

My Thoughts:

I recommend Protecting Your Child from Predators: How to Recognize and Respond to Sexual Danger by Beth Robinson, EdD, and Latayne C. Scott, PhD, to any caregiver.

Protecting Your Child from Predators was a surprisingly quick read. The authors presented information in a clear and concise manner.  Heartbreaking stories are included for a purpose, not superfluously, but may be triggers for readers who have experienced sexual abuse.

The chapters in Protecting Your Child from Predators do not need to be read in order. However, I do recommend reading it through once as the parts about younger children lay a foundation for the chapters about older children. Because the book is meant for the reader to be able to jump into whatever chapter/topic is needed, certain information is repeated at the end of each chapter.

Although I have already taught my children most of what it recommends for their ages, the book did provide information I wasn’t aware of in the chapters on technology and regarding the common ways a child may be sexually abused by another child.

Protecting Your Child from Predators unabashedly affirms that Jesus hates abuse, especially child abuse, and that you can and should say no to evil instead being overtaken by it. I appreciated the strong stance of the authors. This healthy mindset should be a given for any Christian, but as recent headlines have revealed, sexual abuse not only occurs within churches, but the church sometimes mishandles its response. I appreciated that the book addresses situations involving the church.

This book is written for parents and caregivers who are adept at setting boundaries, being able to stand up and confront someone in the moment. Due to my past history, I really struggle to set boundaries, especially in a situation that is unexpected.  I found myself sometimes wanting more examples on “how” exactly to set those boundaries. So, if you’re like me and struggle with setting boundaries in general, this book will encourage you toward that, but you may need another resource specifically on the topic of boundaries.

I give Protecting Your Child from Predators: How to Recognize and Respond to Sexual Danger by Beth Robinson, EdD, and Latayne C. Scott, PhD, 4.5 stars and I recommend it to every caregiver.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I was provided a copy of this book by the publisher. All opinions in this review are my own.

Friday, November 26, 2010

No More Christian Nice Girl by Paul Coughlin and Jennifer Degler

The subtitle of No More Christian Nice Girl is: When just being nice – instead of good – hurts you, your family, and your friends. That is exactly what this book is about. The authors challenge Christian women to move from being Christian Nice Girls (CNGs) to being God's Good Women.

What's the difference? The difference is that a CNG is a people-pleaser who thinks she is behaving like a nice Christian girl should act, but the truth is she is allowing unhealthy actions and situations to rule her life. God's good woman, on the other hand, reflects the 360 degree personality of Jesus and has the courage to take a stand for herself and for others. The authors present Jesus as standing for what he believed in, even if it was abrasive to some people. Best of all, the authors back up everything with Scripture so that one can go to the Bible and see exactly what it says. The book also offers practical advice on setting boundaries and dealing with friends, co-workers, husbands, and CNGs.

This is a book that every woman should read at least once, even if you don't think you have issues with boundaries.  The emphasis about reflecting Christ's behavior is a powerful lesson that we could all learn and practice more effectively.  I especially appreciated Appendix A of this book which lists all the times that Jesus was “not so nice” aka He set boundaries or said things that upset people. The questions at the end of each chapter were thought-provoking and helpful. The only thing I would change is that I wish there had been more said about dealing with family. The family and friends chapter seemed to focus mainly on friends and I think family is one of the most difficult areas when it comes to setting boundaries and speaking the truth in love.

It took me well over a month to read No More Christian Nice Girl because I read it as part of my daily devotions. A few sections a day was an extremely effective way for me to read it because it allowed everything to sink in and the repetition of reading about the same topic daily increased the impact of the lessons. I would recommend this book to women over the age of 18. I only give the age limit of 18 because there is a chapter about sex and boundaries which might not be appropriate for younger readers.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Bethany House Publishers as part of their Blogger Review Program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."